Re: The Complaints Thread >:(

by **Gadreille** Wed Sep 16, 2009 10:10 pm

Kathryn Lacey wrote::: shudders :: I don't think I could ever be a mother. Go those who are successful with such a lifestyle! XD

Dunno if I'm successful...lol

Complaint: My class is too easy. WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ?

by Lara Wed Sep 16, 2009 10:56 pm

I complain that it feels way too much like a Friday for me to have class tomorrow. ):

by **Gadreille** Wed Sep 16, 2009 10:59 pm

Same here. Why is it not Friday yet? Lol

by **Fate Flyer** Thu Sep 17, 2009 11:08 am

I have to give a speech today, since my partner and I didn't go on Tuesday. Bleh

I'm terrible at improvisation and just speaking normally, so I'm going to mostly just be reading from a paper I typed up. I hope that's okay, because I just can't think of things on the spot. Even in normal, everyday conversations I'm terrible at talking.

by **Gadreille** Thu Sep 17, 2009 11:36 am

Fate Foretold wrote:I have to give a speech today, since my partner and I didn't go on Tuesday. I'm terrible at improvisation and just speaking normally, so I'm going to mostly just be reading from a paper I typed up. I hope that's okay, because I just can't think of things on the spot. Even in normal, everyday conversations I'm terrible at talking.

Well, I'm much to late to be any help, but I was very much the same way until I took Comm 108, a speech communications course. The teacher actually helped me to a point where I can now give mediocre presentations, instead of reading off a paper or freezing up.

The way she taught me takes a lot of work, but it is worth it. Basically, you want to make an improv speech because it sounds better than the alternative. So, you make a series of note cards (try to keep it less than 3, 1 if you can) with important information on it. Put up key words that trigger the ideas you want to discuss, as well as quotes and sources you may want to use during the speech.

This way, you aren't looking down at the paper all the time, but you don't have to completely memorize the information.

It is still vital to memorize as much as you can, but the note card will help you if you suddenly draw a blank.

Hopefully you can try doing a speech this way sometime in the future and see if it works for you ^_^

by **Fate Flyer** Thu Sep 17, 2009 11:43 am

Thanks, Ryona. Smile

I've learned something similar to that in an old Speech class that I took (back at community college), but I think that I needed to practice a lot more, since even when I'd create notecards with just some basic points on them, I'd end up memorizing what I wanted to say, so that when I actually said it, it sounded like I was still reading it. xD Since this isn't a Speech-type class (it's more of an English one), and since our teacher is really laid back and acts/seems like a student herself, I'm hoping that it won't be a huge deal if I just read, especially if I read enthusiastically and look up to make eye contact. *crosses fingers*

by **Gadreille** Thu Sep 17, 2009 11:50 am

Yea I'm guessing the more you do it, the less it sounds like memorizing. I don't know, I haven't done a speech in a while, and I've got one at the end of the quarter. Sad

by Guest Thu Sep 17, 2009 1:03 pm

Even with note cards, I couldn't improvise. I had to memorize my entire speeches word for word or I would get myself stuck. And we had some pretty long speeches.

by **Fate Flyer** Thu Sep 17, 2009 1:23 pm

Silvone Elestahr wrote:Even with note cards, I couldn't improvise. I had to memorize my entire speeches word for word or I would get myself stuck. And we had some pretty long speeches.

Wow, yeah, that sounds like me too (minus the long speeches D: ). I think something that's good to remember for speeches is that most of the class isn't going to be paying attention anyway lol, or if they are, most are rooting for you to do well.

by Guest Thu Sep 17, 2009 1:25 pm

It wasn't that I didn't want it to sound wrong. If I can't remember what I practiced, I can't get anything out. At all. And then they simply won't be hearing anything. I can't improvise at all. Even in conversation: If Ryona asks me to talk to her...I can never think of anything to say. The same for anyone. If I'm under pressure to talk my mind draws blanks. I don't know why, but I simply can't improvise under pressure.

by LunarScorpio Thu Sep 17, 2009 8:32 pm

My phone is being stupid and is freezing every single time that I try to text someone. URGH!!!

by Shades Of Gray Thu Sep 17, 2009 9:50 pm

My complaint is how long it's been since I've actually rp'd... and how my writing is suffering because of it. >.< Not only that, but my creativity seems a might bit constipated, and that is frustrating to no end!!

Sad

It makes me sad...

by LunarScorpio Fri Sep 18, 2009 11:48 am

Gah! I just called a place I want to try to get an internship at and I swear I totally blew it. I got so nervous and worked I almost forgot my phone number! Stupid answering machines, I hate talking to them! I almost wish the actual person would have picked up. Now I'm all stressed out and that's my first choice place too. Just, ugh!

by **Fate Flyer** Fri Sep 18, 2009 12:14 pm

Awwww, Fel! *hugs* I'm sure it wasn't horrible! Don't stress too much. They can't be upset at you for being a tad nervous. No worries! Hopefully leaving a message shouldn't effect you anyway.

by Kædai Sat Sep 19, 2009 12:08 pm

I just broke my bed. Like, part of the frame cracked and split. I just laid down and CRACK. >.<

Y'know, there are times I think being a brick wall has it's disadvantages. u.u

by Kaito Sat Sep 19, 2009 12:16 pm

I want to dress up really fine and go out but it seems that in the whole area there are no locations where such a dresscode is appealing. The only club I know of is some rich people's club over fifty kilometers away. Didn't find anything else in the nearby cities.

by **Gadreille** Sat Sep 19, 2009 12:46 pm

Kaito wrote:I want to dress up really fine and go out but it seems that in the whole area there are no locations where such a dresscode is appealing. The only club I know of is some rich people's club over fifty kilometers away. Didn't find anything else in the nearby cities.

You are my hero!

I went to a wedding last year, and I got dressed up real nice...

and the only people there that were dressed better than Silv and I, were the bride and groom. Embarassed

What happened to top hats and fancy dresses at the movie theatre?

by Guest Sat Sep 19, 2009 1:24 pm

Ryona Noel wrote:

What happened to top hats and fancy dresses at the movie theatre?

Maybe we should do that one time, just to freak people out? It would probably be fun, kind of like standing backward in an elevator Poke

by **Fate Flyer** Sat Sep 19, 2009 1:25 pm

Ugh, I'm feeling stressed, and then my mom calls and yells at me for "giving away my art," despite my trying to explain to her what it was for. She's so dense.

Someone also hacked into my WoW account and changed my password, and without that I can't get it back.

by **Gadreille** Sat Sep 19, 2009 1:32 pm

Aw...If it makes her feel better, when I get rich I'll pay you for it Smile

Edit: I posted a little blurb on facebook, hopefully Mom will see it and think twice about condoning you for making 'free' art Smile

by **Kathryn Lacey** Sat Sep 19, 2009 3:28 pm

Is Ryona's siggy the full image, or did you just make it into a set-up? I want to see the full image. ^;_;^

by **Gadreille** Sat Sep 19, 2009 3:59 pm

It's a set I made off of the original. full image here

by **Fate Flyer** Sat Sep 19, 2009 7:24 pm

Oh, don't be silly, Ryona! Lol my mom's just completely insane, in lots of ways lol. Aww, but thanks for your message, Ryona. You really didn't need to do that! <3 My mom just is not a very smart person sometimes, especially when it comes to internet stuff, so she couldn't understand what I was trying to tell her about the contest.

So, I guess the blackbird that my parents and brother saved and kept that I had talked about before just escaped. My parents were washing his cage, and my brother took it outside for some reason, and then he just flew off because my mom hadn't clipped his wings in a month. So, he's at the top of their neighbor's tree, and I guess my mom was really upset about it and crying. She was angry at my brother for taking him outside, but I guess my brother feels bad about it. I don't know if they'll be able to get him down or not, but hopefully if he does leave, he'll know how to take care of himself, since they raised him practically since he hatched. (My mom spent a lot of money on him too, with his cage and accessories and such. D: )

by LunarScorpio Sat Sep 19, 2009 9:49 pm

My phone keeps freezing up when I try to text someone. It's so annoying and I just want to throw it against the wall right now! Now I have to go and see if I can get them to give me a new one.

by Eternity Sat Sep 19, 2009 9:52 pm

So... bored... Even the ceiling isn't talking to me tonight!

by Lara Sat Sep 19, 2009 10:39 pm

Maybe we should do that one time, just to freak people out? It would probably be fun, kind of like standing backward in an elevator

Hehe, there's a whole group of us up at my school who plan to do that
sometime soon. We might even throw some singing in. I'm excited about it.

I complain that everyone's out doing something or another, so no one's around to hang out with. Sad

by **Kathryn Lacey** Sun Sep 20, 2009 12:30 am

Thanks, Ryona!

I complain that I did something super stupid, and now I have some Malware shit on my computer with a couple of trojans. I'm super irritated about it, and I had to go out to buy some discs onto which I can save my important stuff before wiping my computer. Ugh... This is such a pain in the ass... ._.

by **Kalon Ordona II** Sun Sep 20, 2009 1:28 am

I feel so bad for your boredom, Eternity! Crying or Very sad

Makes me want to clone myself so somebody can be RPing with you all the time. Smile

Though, as they say, boredom can lead to above average innovation and creativity.

Well, to stay on topic...
I complain that, though my internet is back, now using the phone messes with it. Oh well; small price to pay. I'm sure we'll solve it. And in the meantime, I have internet! That's the main thing. Nod

AAAAGH it was so horrible being away from you guys for even a couple days!! Sad

by The Melancholy Spirit Sun Sep 20, 2009 1:37 am

I complain about my biased hatred toward my own voice, making it impossible to judge whether or not I’ve suitable vocals for the kind of music I want to be involved in.

by **Kathryn Lacey** Sun Sep 20, 2009 4:25 am

In what kind of music do you want to involve yourself?

I complain that only having relative pitch just doesn't feel like enough...

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